Spiritual rites of passage and spiritual transitions are important benchmarks. These rituals build community and prepare us for future life challenges. Transitions and transformation are signposts of growth. Why does our modern culture overlook these reference points?
Any event which has a significant impact on our lives is worthy of commemorating. Remembering them helps us better prepare for the future. If the event is positive, it helps us remember how we did it, so we can replicate the effort. If the event is negative, it can help us change our behavior, to avoid the same situation or keep from repeating the same error in judgment. It can help us manage the impact of change.
Spiritual Rites of Passage
Many life events are transitions from one state to another. It is common to memorize or honor those transitions we deem significant with a ritual, and these acts of remembrance do not have to be elaborate. A moment of silence is an example of a ceremony to commemorate a significant life event.
To make the culture inclusive, they remove benchmarks unique to specific groups. Then they impose a “one-size-fits-all” approach by creating national holidays. Unfortunately, this often has the opposite effect intended. Instead of creating unity, it erases the identity of ethnic groups and isolates them.
Spiritual Transitions and Transformations
We should not overlook the importance of these benchmarks. They remind us of the different phases in our experience and learn important lessons. It provides us with the courage to heal. Benchmarks are a reminder of the actions that led to the event and these could be transitions can either be positive or negative.
Some transition points are worthy of commemoration, such as events that have a long-lasting or life-changing implications and high emotional impact. Births, deaths, graduations, and marriages fit these criteria. These are some of the major cultural, personal and spiritual transitions which shape our lives, and unfortunately, accidents and illnesses can also be important life transition points.
Transitions and Transformation
For example, earning a high-school or college degree takes a lot of hard work, so the degree is a memorial to our hard work. This achievement is a building block that helps us to accomplish higher career goals. Is it only a personal, cultural or practical achievement? No. It is also a spiritual achievement, and spiritual achievements are transformations.
Similarly, if the event is an accident caused by negligent or bad behavior, this serves as a reminder of what not to do. People who are survivors of violence often commemorate their ability or luck, which allowed them to overcome the situation.
So transitions and transformation is not a one-way street. The change or transition could be positive or negative, it is often a mix of both.
Rites of Passage And Spiritual Transitions
Every benchmark is essential. Every day changes in our lives represent incremental changes and so, unless we are self-aware and keep a journal, we miss these. Some changes we plan or expect, and other times they are unexpected. Sometimes they are transitions we anticipate will occur, but don’t know when such as our physical death. There are three ways to group these transitions or benchmarks.
- Cultural Rites
- Spiritual Rites
- Personal Rites
Cultural Rites of Passage
Ancient cultures use these spiritual transitions and transformations as milestones and glue for the culture, with rites to celebrate every kind of transition throughout life. These were opportunities to build community. They provide opportunities to showcase examples of acceptable and unacceptable behavior.
They can show the cohesiveness of society. When people share the same transitions and transformation practices, it brings people together. Similarly, when people celebrate cultural differences, it is an opportunity for people to respect the individuality of the community. It brings people together.
On the other hand, the philosophy of nationalism is a way to make these same differences reasons for division which fracture a community. Ideologies like patriotism and nationalism create artificial boundaries and hierarchies that are detrimental to the culture over time. So, when a culture integrates these symbols, values, and rituals, they can evolve and become rites of passage and spiritual transitions.
Cultural rites can include spiritual changes, as well. These events or catalysts do not need to be positive. A catastrophe such as an earthquake or plague can bring out the best or the worst in people.
When people rally around each other, it builds community. For example, people from diverse backgrounds can build healthy communities and protect the weak in the group held captive in concentration camps. Or a crisis can cause the entire culture to fracture if people do not rally around each other. We see people acting with greed and selfishness during the pandemic when leadership does not bring people together for a common cause. For example, when a leader steps down, there is typically a ceremony to honor his service. It marks the transition of their power to the successor.
A healthy culture can accommodate several traditions and historical narratives, there doesn’t need to be one cultural narrative that fits everyone. Unification is not the pluralization of all cultures into one, instead, it is the acceptance of diversity as a means of unification. Diversity is only an issue when one tradition dominates the cultural narrative.
How do you create a unified culture but still celebrate different cultures? Good question. It takes conscious work to educate, create processes that ensure the equal distribution and balance of basic human needs of food, shelter, education and healthcare.
To create a healthy culture, you must establish fair guidelines that prohibit discrimination or preferential treatment for any one group. The goal is to create an inclusive culture while also promoting individual expression.
It is impossible to create an inclusive culture if elements of a powerful part of the subculture contain negative bias and prejudice. It is sad in this modern world to see societies which backward and regressive, resorting to censorship and groupthink manipulation in order to control. They create scapegoats for problems. It enables one group to marginalize minorities while garnering the necessary support to stay in power.
Spiritual Rites of Passage
There is a typical formula for spiritual transitions; separation, cleansing, death, and rebirth. This process is cyclical, as with the coming of each season, and you’ll see this same pattern reflected in many cultures. Joseph Campbell, a noted anthropologist, uses Hero’s Journey to describe the universal spiritual quest. We use this in the same pattern in our blended learning strategy, which is structured in three phases, awakening, transforming, and inspiring.
We need to recognize our spiritual call. If we try to ignore, it can cause emotional distress. The first phase of the “spiritual calling” is the desire to explore the unknown. It is a rite of passage that commemorates the first steps on the path.
Separation or Awakening
The separation grabs our attention. It makes us focus on the processes. It corresponds with the awakening aspect of the Hero’s Journey, and in many ancient cultures, this separation was often a physical one. For example, they restrain and take away the candidate on a physical adventure. In some cultures, they blindfolded candidates and transport them into the wilderness, well, or cave, other cultures used psychedelics in a hut, or sweat lodge. Today, the weekend retreat where we turn off electronic devices works as an adequate substitute. Separation provides space for awakening. Solitude separates us from normal day-to-day activities so that we can focus on the inward journey.
Cleansing the body and mind, can occur at any point in the change process. Sometimes the rituals are to prepare the candidate, and sometimes as a way of rewarding the candidate for completing a difficult exercise. Some cultures use a ritual bath as a symbolic cleansing of the mind and spirit. Others use special diets for periods before the transition ritual and even remove all body hair. Ritualistic scaring and tattoos are also a way of cleansing, but can be used in other steps such as a sign of rebirth, or passing the test of the transition process.
Cleansing also can be part of the home. Downsizing or decluttering the house is also a way of cleansing. You are preparing the mind by giving it space. Cleansing your physical area is symbolic of this action.
Symbolic death is a concept in many religious traditions and spiritual rites of passage . It corresponds with the transformation aspect of the Hero’s Journey. In some ancient cultures, the candidates did not realize it was only a symbolic act, and many candidates thought they would die. It’s also a familiar hazing ritual used by secret societies.
Some cultures used scarification, tattoos, and even dismemberment to emphasize their importance. This symbolic death would sign their initiation level, making them worthy, committed, and focused on learning.
Symbolic death often represents the removal of previous beliefs and barriers. Because without the ability to leave them behind, we often cannot access or use spiritual technologies that require an open mind.
Today, we use comparative analysis to examine our paradigm. A process like this reveals our sacred ground. It gives us the motivation to move beyond our limitations. A necklace with a small trinket symbolizes this undertaking.
The final goal of the spiritual rite of passage is often a symbolic rebirth. In the Hero’s Journey, this transition corresponds with the elements of transformation and inspiration. We transform when we live-in-spirit. It comes about as a direct result of applying the new spiritual technologies. Perception changes to the extent that one adopts to greater awareness.
Many cultures develop rites of passage and spiritual transitions around this concept. For example, in Christianity the spiritual re-birth celebrated as the pinnacle of the faith.
Seeing things in new ways also has unintended consequences. Your conscience and your heart grow. Now see both the good and the bad, so you must act on these motivations. It is what makes the world better. We need more people who find a passion for the greater well-being of the planet.
Personal Rites of Passage
If the culture does not recognize important life events and benchmarks, people create their own. That’s because they are important landmarks for our psyche. So, if there is no “space” for this in the popular culture, the subculture will develop its “own” milestones to commemorate significant events. These personal rites can reflect elements of both cultural and spiritual transitions and transformations.
Gangs and religious sects are examples of the creation of personal rites. They create new subcultures. Subcultures develop rites of passage to commemorate entry and levels of rank and hierarchy within the culture. Along with these rites, they create symbols, objects of power, and rituals. The symbolism of these special rites links to psychological typologies that influence our thinking and values. These bond them to the new subculture.
When a culture fractures, this is a it’s a sign of failure to recognize and support individual rights and beliefs and cultural diversity. Fracturing causes more division as the subcultures set up boundaries, often creating bias and prejudice. The modern culture emphasizes creating a homogenized monotone environment where commerce can occur. It does not support individuality unless they can package and sell it to you.
Losing something or someone important will significantly impact our lives, and it’s why many cultures support the grieving process for a variety of situations. Most ancient civilizations were better at this than we are. That is because the culture recognized these events as spiritual transformations.
Creating Spiritual Rites of Passage
You don’t need to belong to a gang or religion to create meaningful rituals to celebrate significant life milestones. As mentioned above, modern culture rarely recognizes these personal milestones. So, you are free to develop your “own” rites and rituals. These are usually the keys to unlocking your spiritual gifts. It’s another reason modern culture downplays these events.
When you create your “own” spiritual rites of passage, you celebrate your heritage and accomplishments. Any significant life event is worthy of this type of celebration, and an important way to break the monotony of modern life is to recognize our progress. Small steps can be worthy of celebration. For example, if you are trying to lose weight, staying the exact weight is a benchmark that tells you that you are not gaining weight.
Although we live in a modern world, we should not overlook the importance of spiritual rites of passage and spiritual transitions and transformation.