What kind of person are you creating? What kind of happiness are you cultivating?
If you fake it ‘til you make it,’ then what you make will be fake. — Robin Wheeler
Don’t Create Fake Happiness
Our culture wants us to be fake. It gives others the false impression that we are achieving the goals the culture sets for us. It’s a consumer-driven philosophy. It creates a need or problem and then offers the solution for a handsome price.
Advertising is just the latest installment of this strategy. It leads to purchase everything from toothpaste to ideologies. Advertising takes many forms. This leads many people to conclude that our culture is a carefully crafted fraud made simply to sell things we don’t need.
Be mindful of where you focus your energy. Your intent needs to be authentic. If you pretend you are something you are not, you will not find fulfillment in your efforts. By your fake intentions, you will create empty and fake returns. So don’t follow the crowd. Don’t fake it. Don’t be a fake person.
Being authentic in a plastic world has advantages and disadvantages. When you are authentic and true to yourself, whatever you do and create will be original and without strings. It will make you stand out. The disadvantage is you will stick out because you are not following the crowd. But in a world of fakes, it is difficult to be authentic. You can do it, but it takes some effort.
You Will Create Nothing By Pretending
When you try to build anything on a fabrication, you become part of the falsehood. There are so many sources of false information, from fake news to fake personalities. We are emersed in a wave of falseness, so we cannot see the sources that are contaminating our lives. We are literally being indoctrinated in a culture of pretending.
All my friends thought I was a very happy human being. Because that’s how I acted- like a really happy human being. But all that pretending made me tired. If I acted the way I felt, then I doubt my friends would have really hung out with me. So the pretending wasn’t all bad. The pretending made me less lonely. But in another was, it made me more lonely because I felt like a fraud. I’ve always felt like a fake human being. ―
Religion Teaches Us To Pretend
Western Organized Religion (1) perfected the processes of brainwashing eons ago. These social platforms use self hypnosis and group hypnosis make them the richest entities on the planet. These are the Abrahamic Religions of Semitic origin, Judaism, Christianity, and Islam. But these systems aren’t new, they are a re-branding of Assyrian, Egyptian, Persian, and Babylonian mystery religions.
These religions teach us through indoctrination at an early age to pretend in several things. They teach us to pretend there’s a heaven. Then we learn that we need to belong to their institutions to get there. If we do, then we can pretend that we are special, chosen by an imaginary being.
They use this to justify acts of violence and discrimination and to have a clear conscience about it. Yes, we are forgiven, regardless of the greed and evil we inflict on others and the planet. Our imaginary friend may even reward us if we are especially cruel to those who don’t agree with our brand of beliefs. Ask yourself, would someone who uses common sense believe this? Would an authentic person need to pretend about this to be secure in their life?
Your religion assumes that people are children and need a boogeyman so they’ll behave. You want people to believe in God so they’ll obey the law. That’s the only means that occurs to you: a strict secular police force, and the threat of punishment by an all-seeing God for whatever the police overlook. You sell human beings short. ―
Don’t be a fake person just to fit in. Your innate desire to seek spiritual things cannot be quenched by following dogma and doctrine. If you follow a religion you will create an addiction. This is a substitute for your own spiritual quest.
Corporate Culture Teaches Us to Pretend
Today everyone learns to pretend they are happy. They project the illusion they are successful. But by what definition of success?
Pretending enables us to fit into the crowd. If you ascribe to corporate slavery, then you receive the rewards of the culture to the extent you provide a return on investment. You must fit the mold and become what the corporate culture wants.
If you awaken, you may not want to work 60 to 80 hours a week just to prove your allegiance to a corporation. But be careful not to be too outspoken. You’ll find yourself out of a job and no way to provide for yourself. You’ll find a bad reputation will make you unemployable.
I’m for the individual as opposed to the corporation. The way it is the individual is the underdog, and with all the things a corporation has going for them the individual comes out banged on her head. The artist is nothing. It’s really tragic. ―
Popular Culture Teaches Us to Pretend
Overall, the modern cultural narrative programs us to live fake lives. We are programmed to fake happiness from an early age. The way we look, dress and live perpetuates the illusion of success. The mantra is “to fake it, even if we don’t feel like it,” and if you don’t make it, keep faking it! You can buy your way into a happy life, right? Wrong.
This type of mindset isn’t just optimism, it’s denial. Some resort to drugs to keep up the fake appearances of success and happiness, then at some point, we crash. We have breakdowns. We need rehab. Okay, then it all starts over again. Living in this type of constant denial is harmful to our very health and wellbeing. Don’t fake it. Learn to resist commercialism.
Life expectancy from birth is a method most often used as a measure of overall health. The USA ranks 43 out of the top 50 for longevity… Let that sink in. The most modern health care system in the world with the most food available.
Only fake happiness comes with the compulsion to flaunt it. ―
The Cost of Fake Happiness
Realize there’s a heavy price to pay for not wanting to join in the collective beliefs and values. There’s no room for thinking outside the box. You must ascribe to the values of the box to a certain extent to be tolerated in society.
Fake happiness is the worst kind of sadness. ―
So, can you be awake and still ‘look like’ you are faking it with the rest of them? Is it possible to live a double life? Yes, anything is possible. And, that is the only way to bring about the awakening of those who are on the fanatical side of the equation. However, the price to pay for joining in the cultural narrative is a heavier cost. It will cost you the authentic life you were born to live. Don’t be a fake! Fake happiness is the worst kind of unhappiness.
Learn to question the cultural narrative. Learn to use your mind to determine fact from fiction. To do this you must learn to think logically. Our culture doesn’t want you to do this. That means you must take some time to study on your own.
We suggest using the full complement of logical tools. Start with an understanding of logical reasoning. Then add the logical axioms these will help you recognize the common sales ploys used to sell ideologies. And, lastly the toolbox “spotting logical fallacy.”
Don’t Be a Fake Person
Take the opposite approach and be authentic. In this way, you need not pretend at all. You won’t have to pretend you are happy. And you won’t need to join with others who have an imaginary friend.
It’s important to realize you will create yourself every day. If you walk with authenticity, people will notice. You find that your happiness does not come from buying things or belonging to a group of pretenders. So be true to yourself. Be authentic. Don’t be a fake person.
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(1) Abrahamic Religions, Wikipedia
(2) Joseph Campbell & Joseph Campbell’s book The Hero’s Journey, Wikipedia