The way you keep growing is by adopting a beginner’s mindset… Come every day eager to learn and with an open mind. Be a beginner, never an expert. ― Guru Tua
Our culture promotes the idea that the best teachers are well-known celebrities. This isn’t further from the truth. Often those who are the best teachers are not those who seek public acclamation or endorsement.
Similarly, people seek experts because they believe experts know what they are talking about. Again, this isn’t always the case. You see people in places of power, not because they are outstanding leaders or teachers, but because they amass a following.
Always be a student. The more you learn, the more you understand. The more you understand, you realize there is much more to learn. When you put on the garments of an expert, celebrity and high achievement, these become a barrier to further learning. ― Guru Tua
Why Adopt A Beginner’s Mindset
The mindset of a beginner is an asset in life. This is especially true in spiritual matters. It’s important to be open-minded and willing to explore alternative methods and learn new things.
The above mindset contrasts with that of the expert. The expert knows it already, and this is an attitude that is a hindrance to learning.
People with a beginner mindset are curious, humble, and help others. They come ready to learn. This is the mindset that keeps you open to learning. It enables you to connect with people where they are.
A beginner asks a lot of questions instead of stating their opinions. This enables them to learn as much from others as they share. A beginner’s mindset is an asset, no matter how much you know and no matter long you’ve been on the path.
If you are a teacher, this mindset is indispensable. A good teacher asks a lot of questions too. A good teacher often learns as much as the student. As a guru (teacher), you’ll gain a deeper understanding of any subject through teaching. This is especially true with spiritual technologies of seated and moving meditation and energy collection.
Characteristics of a Great Guru or Teacher
Guru is not the goal. Anyone who establishes himself as a guru to be worshipped is not a guru. Guru is like a boat for crossing the river. It is important to have a good boat, and it is very dangerous to have a boat that is leaking.
The boat brings you across the river. When the river is crossed, the boat is no longer necessary. You don’t hang onto the boat after completing the journey, and you certainly don’t worship the boat. ― Swami Rama
If you are seeking a spiritual teacher, seek someone who projects competence because of their humbleness and willingness to be of service. Find someone selective about who they teach. This shows they want to give quality individual guidance. Also, seek a teacher that has isn’t seeking followers. You want a teacher that makes other teachers.
Characteristics to Avoid in a Guru or Teacher
Avoid those looking for followers. Beware of those who want to need to be treated like a celebrity. Look out for the self-proclaimed expert. The most advanced teachers are those who keep learning. Trust your gut instincts.
For example, if someone says they’ve discovered a new way to meditate or anything in the spiritual realm, be skeptical. The human nervous system hasn’t changed in eons. Generations and generations of people have been investigating how to alter, expand and reach higher states of consciousness. In our experience, this is probably a ploy to sell something.
How to Adopt A Beginner’s Mindset
The first step toward a fresh mindset is by eliminating the programming that is filling your worldview with negative bias and prejudice. The source of this programming comes from our dominant cultural narrative. Our culture gets most of its input from religion. If you are a follower of one of the world’s most popular religions, this can be difficult.
Western organized religion has some of the most harmful programming, which promotes everything from wars and genocide to all forms of discrimination. They justify patriarchal hierarchies are responsible for gender mutilation and other barbaric practices. In some cultures, they will punish you for proclaiming that you do not accept their imaginary friend and its related doctrines as truth.
The best tool to ferret out the facts from the fiction is what we call comparative analysis. This is a structured scientific approach to comparative religious studies. Another tool to identify the default programming of our personality and instincts is the Enneagram. The Enneagram can help us spot the common thought scripts of unhealthy thinking for each personality type.
You must confront and remove a negative bias and prejudice before you attempt to add positive thought scripts. This isn’t easy inner work, but it is necessary. Once you’ve removed the negative programming scripts, then you can replace with positive ones using affirmations. Don’t overlay positive affirmations over negative, the older negative self-talk will override them.
One last point. No matter how much you learn or how long you study, if you have an eager-to-learn beginner’s mindset, you’ll go further.
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