The Fears We Don't Face Become Limits Overcoming Our Fears

The Fears We Don’t Face Become Our Limits ―

Fears are limits, and these limits are made of beliefs. Beliefs that limit are self-imposed prisons.  The more beliefs you have, the more limits you have on your freedom, your ability to think and perceive.  Overcoming our fears is key to any growth.

The Fears We Don’t Face

When you are unable or unwilling to see and accept something, we have a habit of turning it into something we fear.  Being afraid makes it a boundary, and this is “fear by association”.  If we stay away from the boundary, we feel safe.  This keeps us from facing the thing we fear.

People develop groups around their collective fears.  These collective fears become our belief systems.  Many of these collective belief systems are what we call religion. Some religions use fear to gain members and keep members inside the group.

Religions use a variety of techniques to trigger these fears of control.  They ostracise and persecute people who are not members. Sometimes, the group can also affect your ability to work or conduct business. But there are also spiritual fears.

Religion uses the fear of not being accepted by God or gods.  A common fear is the loss of afterlife rewards.  Or fear of eternal punishment.   So, we see how the collective belief system of many popular religions uses fear as a tactic to limit freethinking.

Eternal suffering awaits anyone who questions God’s, infinite love. ― Bill Hicks

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These fears are beliefs that limit our basic freedom of thought.  It’s a lot to overcome, but facing our fears is the only way to overcome them. More and more people are finding the courage to face their beliefs that limit and control their lives.  They understand that the fears we don’t face become our limits.  The real enemies of progress are the people behind the fear.  Fear is a tool of control.  It is the major component of group hypnosis and groupthink manipulation tactics.

The fears we don’t face become our limits. — Robin Sharma

Overcoming Our Fears

The first step is learning to “see” through what you “believe” should be “there.” The more boundaries you have, the more difficult it becomes to see and remove them. Those entrenched in any dogma will be blind to the facts. Unlearning these boundaries isn’t easy. It requires courage and persistence to get past the boundaries of your paradigm or worldview.

Your paradigm isn’t like a set of Lego. You can’t take it apart piece by piece. Your paradigm is more like a piñata.  You need to smash it to bits before there is any clarity.  In the 1970s there were people engaged in this kind of inner work.
They call this process, termed it deprogramming. This wasn’t an easy or voluntary journey for the subject. They were often confined and forced to confront their inconsistencies and fallacies head-on.  Overcoming our fears is hard inner work. 
Deprogramming does work, but most people don’t want to be tied to a chair or confined to a room to undergo this intensive inner work. Most people prefer to do this themselves.  It takes longer.  It requires courage to overcome the boundaries on your own.

Another way to look at is like taking off a band-aide a little at a time. Our hats go off to those courageous enough to confront their religious beliefs that limit our thinking.  Keep telling yourself it is worth it. Investigate anything that confronts your beliefs, especially if it has a basis in science and empirical evidence.

Bottom line.  If you are unwilling to question your beliefs, you will never know if you are following truth or lies.  Here are some tools that can help.

The Fears We Don’t Face Become Our Limits

Overcoming our fears is hard inner work.  Many people live in societies that are oppressive. They have very strict cultural limits and boundaries about thought and behavior.  Breaking the limits of their dominant cultural narrative has harsh consequences.

If you live in a culture that opposes freethinking, be brave but prudent. Find partners who are breaking the chains of organized religion.

Do your own research.  Find other like-minded people whom you can trust.  Remember that the fears we don’t face become our limits.  Limits are like self-imposed prisons.

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